Hear me out, and don't get angry... Love that still image. Certainly I eat like that breifly. BUT, I never spend any time like that, I just doesn't work for me. So much better is, her on her back, legs and cunt in the air, me kneeling upright. MUCH better position, eye contact looking down on her, not straining my neck, just better allround. BUt it doesn't photograph very well for porn, so you rarely see it.
Same for 69.
I don't.
It's shit for more than 5 seconds.
BUT, sideways 69, full body contact, arms and legs intertwined, can roll around. Yup, there forever.
MY partner and I are VERY heavily into roleplay. She didn't understand when we first met, thought it was bad acting "Oh I'm here to fix your washing machine and your dress has fallen off" etc etc.
Very difficult to describe unless you are into it and have experienced it. I REALLY don't want to sound like some douche method actor, but no way to avoid it. I have a number of characters. They have names, backgrounds, likes and dislikes.
When I need to be innocent, brutalized, and the R-word (and it is a NEED), then I become Emily. She is very innocent, and a prime victim for a home invasion. When I'm a soldier captured behind enemy lines, I'm Seargent Sara Walker. She can take lot, and her response to any question is "Fuck you."
When my partner needs to worship me, I'm Lady Sonja (Not going in to that, very personal to me and my partner).
They are all very different. I feel genuine fear as Walker and Emily, genuine tears, genuine begging. Not something I just snap into or out of, Need to think about the carachter before hand, and playing with my nipples while I do it kind of makes me focus on her...
As I say, unless you do it an experiance it, it will mean nothing to you and probably sounds stupid.
e.g. Elise Graves. I love watching her as a sub. But she is truely awful as a top. Her voice has no authority, she clearly doesn't know what she's going to say before she opens her mouth, no confidence in what she is saying. She is just like 99% of all the other "dominant" females online who think wearing a latex dress makes them a top.
Enough ranting, have to pick up my niece as she's staying here for a couple of days... Hope she likes walking in the woods as we are out of ideas...
Trust me, You'll like it... Eventually.